Today marks the beginning of the tenth week of my J1 semester of nursing school.
More importantly, today marks only eight weeks left of J1 semester.
Someone asked me awhile back, “Why is it that nursing students always want people to know that they are nursing students? And once they’re nurses, they want everyone to know then, too?”
Another comment was made to me after I told a story about school one day: “Oh, are you in nursing school? I didn’t know…” (sarcastic, obviously)
While comments and questions like this are somewhat hurtful, I must admit that I am proud to be a nursing student. And I’m proud to be proud of it. There have been multiple times these last few months that I have questioned what I’ve gotten myself into…what I have willingly chosen to put myself through. I have already been through four years of school and none of them were this hard. I admire the girls that go about this process the “normal” way and begin nursing school their junior year. I know that God was looking out for me when He had me wait – He knew I was not ready for this back then! I worked hard my first four years, but this is entirely different.
Needless to say (especially if you know me and have been around me at all) I have felt a whirlwind of emotions these past ten weeks. But I wouldn’t trade the crazy ups and downs for anything. A lot has changed… and with every change that happens around me in my life I can feel myself inwardly changing even more.
Y’all… this is hard. Really, really hard. Admitting that I struggle is not an easy thing for me to do and nearly brings tears to my eyes. I have always worked in college and I ultimately made the decision about a month ago to take a break from working and concentrate on this chapter in my life. One of my closest friends was extremely shocked when I shared this with her, if that tells you anything. I am challenged on a daily basis, and I learn/see/experience the craziest things that the vast majority of people never will in their lifetime. Every day is a learning and challenging experience. But the way I see it, the way all nursing students see it really, is that we are so lucky.
There is nothing easy, or glamorous, about this pursuit or the end result of the profession itself. But I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Not everyone is supposed to be a nurse, and for obvious reasons. Just like not everyone is made to be a financial coach, marketing guru, teacher, equity syndicate manager, etc. So, yes, we are proud of what we are pursuing and like to talk about it. Not out of self-promotion or narcissism or bragging; but because this is the coolest thing in the world to us. If you don’t feel this way about what you are pursuing, or what you are already doing as a career in your life, I suggest you do some reevaluating. Because everyone deserves this feeling.
Xoxo